Much is written about the lack of civility that is so prevalent in the workplace. Missing from many workplaces are the basics that we were taught as children.

We see the evidence when people become frustrated, disillusioned, and fed up with the lack of common courtesies that make us a civilized group of beings. We see the lack of civility when others cut in front of us, with no acknowledgement of our presence, and in parking lots when someone takes the parking space for which we have clearly been waiting.

Our failure to speak and act in a manner that demonstrates our respect for others, and their rights, may cause them to feel insignificant. Each of us wants to feel appreciated by others. Lack of respect from others can make us feel even more invisible that we may already feel in our busy society.

So what is the source of this problem? The causes are many (perhaps because of the values acquired as children or because of a lack of respect for ourselves), but the solution is simple...

Think before you speak

Make eye contact with others

Say, "Please and thank you"

Our lives may be very busy and our time seemingly in short supply. However, kindness and consideration has a way of saying to each of us... You matter!